Love, Lies and Leaving
Asked on Quora:
"Can a man really love a woman after cheating on her multiple times with another woman?"
Answer by Tamra Coveau:
Love is honest, kind, committed, unselfish, patient and protects the trust between two people.
A man (or woman) who cheats is not loving his (or her) partner. A person who constantly cheats is doing none of these. Don’t let anyone take you for granted and use your love. You are worth more than that and deserve to be in a healthy relationship.
How do you know if you are in an unhealthy relationship
and if you should get out?
There are many ways to tell if your relationship is hurting you, but you have to be really honest with yourself.
You also have to be brave enough to make a safe exit plan. Sometimes dysfunctional relationships are the hardest to leave.
Deciding to end a relationship is difficult, so gather a support system of friends and family around you first and ask for their help. You have suffered long enough and deserve to have only healthy, kind, loving people in your life.